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Nenavath Alivela

2018 (Narrative date)

It is estimated that almost 8 million people are living in conditions of modern slavery in India (GSI 2018). The skewed sex ratio in some regions of India has fuelled the trafficking and selling of women and young girls as brides within India. Women are reportedly sold off into marriage by their families, sometimes at a young age, and end up enduring severe abuse, rape and exploitation by their husbands. It is also reported that women and girls from impoverished backgrounds have been lured by promises of marriage by younger men from urban areas, then forced into sex work once married. 

Nenavath Alivela was married at the age of 15 against her will. She was forced to drop out of school after she became pregnant to deliver her baby boy. Though she was able to return to her education against all odds, she also had to manage the household and work the family’s land, being scolded if she did not work well enough.

I have no father and my mother works as casual labour and also brews ‘gudumba’ (country liquor). I studied till Class X in KGBV at Peddakothapally and my brother was sent to a private school till Class V. I was engaged to marry when I was 14 years old to Ravi who was 16 and an orphan. He was considered an eligible bachelor with assets. I wanted to study further and did not want to marry. In the meantime, my marriage was delayed for a year as my father died. Soon after, I was forced to marry him. I was determined to study and continued to go to school even after I got married. I dropped out of school after completion of class XI when I delivered a boy. I wanted to pursue my education and so rejoined school. But I dropped out again in Class XII as my daughter was born. I was determined to complete Class XII and did so against all odds. I had to manage home, my children, take care of oxen, cows and work on land on my own. I was also scolded when I did not work well. I carry both children to work. My husband did not help me at all.